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There are four areas where you need to build belief:

  • Network Marketing or MLM Industry
  • Your Company & Your Products
  • Yourself and Your Ability to Achieve Your Goals
  • Your dreams

If you don’t have strong belief in these areas, you will not be able to succeed in your business.


Watch the video on building a strong belief.






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Wishing you Abundant Success,


Melodie Kantner


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“Visualize this thing that you want, see it, feel it, believe in it. Make your mental blue print, and begin to build.” – Robert Collier


It’s really not a big secret but some people can’t seem to see it. We all create our future, no matter if we have failure or success. It all depends on what we focus on.


VisualizationVisualize your goals as a reality.


Imagine what your life will be like once you accomplish your goals. Your mind cannot tell the difference between something that you vividly imagine and what is real.


When you vividly imagine your goals as though you have already achieved them, your subconscious mind will begin to recognize and attract all the resources you need to make your goal a reality. The more vivid your visualization, the more effectively this works.


After setting some goals and WRITING THEM DOWN, Visualizing your future is a big key to success in any goal.


4 Keys To Visualization

    Frequency
    Feel the Emotion
    Vivid Detail
    Duration


I want to tell you a little experience I had with visualization. I took a Law of Attraction class several years ago. One of the classes was on getting a mental picture of what we wanted for the future. She had us think of something that represented abundance for us. Picture something that you would think someone with the kind of abundance you want would have, or something you would be doing. For me it was a champagne colored Lexus. Not that I really wanted a Lexus but when I thought of having abundance, a Lexus is what came to mind.


When we started the exercise, the instructor asked for a volunteer. She asked the volunteer to picture in his mind something that symbolized abundance for him. He said a red Ferrari.


She started asking him questions drawing him out and trying to get to the feeling underneath his choice. WHY the Ferrari? She had him close his eyes and picture it. What are you feeling as you drive around in your Ferrari? After several questions and drawing him out she got to the underlying emotion that he was really wanting in his life. The feeling that the red Ferrari symbolized.


As I listened to that man go through that, I realized what my underlying emotion was. I wanted FREEDOM! Freedom from crappy jobs working for people I didn’t respect, freedom from the work schedule, freedom from living in scarcity & not having enough money. So, for me, the Lexus represented freedom.


Next, the instructor had us visualize our chosen symbol. If it was a car, picture the color, walk around it, kick the tires, run your hands over it, open the door, get in and sit in it, smell the leather, turn on the radio, start it up and go for a drive. All the while noticing the feelings you are having. She recommended going into more detail with it. Visualize yourself washing the car, driving to different places and visualize how people react to you.


Anyway, you get the idea. Be as vivid in detail and intensity as you can. Really focus in on the emotion you are after. For me it was the feeling of freedom.


Here’s the neat thing. I did this exercise every day for months even though I didn’t really understand how it worked. I just thought I was putting myself in an attracting energy. Well, it’s true that I was doing that but much more was happening.


Fast forward a few months . . .


Remember that clunker van I mentioned? I had decided it was time to get something better. I had been reading a book by Wallace D. Wattles. Something he said made me decide to get a better car. I wanted a used car but one only a few years old so off to find one.


After looking around for a couple weeks, my husband and I drove to a dealership where we had seen a Toyota Avalon listed. That car was only a couple years old but it had been beat to hell and it was a mess. No way on that one but just 3 cars down from it sat this beautiful champagne colored Lexus. It was a couple years older than the Avalon but it looked like a brand new car. We test drove it. Oooooooooh My!!! What a ride!


We bought that car, so I ended up with a 5 year old Lexus. On the way home, riding in my newly purchased Lexus it hit me. This is the exact car I had been visualizing for months. Exactly. The color the model, everything. I started to cry. I couldn’t contain myself. The emotion of what I had created in my life, not just the car but it was about that time that my husband retired from his job and joined my full time in my business. Not only that but my son Brandon, who was 23 at the time also quit his job and went full time in his network marketing business. I tell you, it still brings tears of joy to my eyes.


Visualize Freedom I realized that my life was changing and it was entirely because I wanted freedom and I was determined to get it. I took my goals and my visualization seriously. Freedom is what I wanted and freedom is what I got.


At the time I did the visualizing daily thinking, “I’ll try it, it’s free, what if it works?” Today I am a firm believer in visualizing your goals.


Oh by the way, my son Brandon also visualized a Lexus in his future. Guess what kind of car he drives today.


So, I urge you to visualize your dreams . . .


Frequently – Visualize as often as you can. Whenever you have a moment, close your eyes and spend some time with it. I like to visualize before falling asleep at night. Sometimes I wake up in the night. I use a few minutes to visualize as I fall back to sleep.

Feel the Emotion – The more emotion you can feel while visualizing the better.


Vivid Detail – The clearer you goal is in your mind’s eye, the more power it will have on your subconscious mind. When your every detail of your attained goal becomes absolutely clear in your mind you will be very close to achieving it.


Duration – The longer you can hold an image of your attained goal in your mind the better.


When you combine all of these four keys you begin to activate all of your subconscious powers to move you, drive you toward accomplishing your goal.

Leave me a comment and tell me your favorite visualizations and if you have had any come true.


Wishing you Abundant Success,


Melodie Kantner


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Your words and your thoughts create your future. You become what you focus on. Whatever you talk yourself into as true, you will live a life that will prove it.


Sometimes it can be difficult to keep our minds and emotions focused in a way that moves ourselves toward our goals. I thought I’d share two abundance techniques that I have been using for years. They have helped me focus on the success I wanted to achieve. I still use these to this day.


The first technique is a variation of an Abundance Game idea I got from Carol Look’s Attracting Abundance newsletter a while back. It’s called the “Are You Sitting Down?” Game.


You “pretend” to leave a message on a friend or family member’s answering machine that begins, “Hi, it’s me, are you sitting down?” Then describe in detail whatever abundance story you are intending to manifest in your life. For example, it might sound something like this: “Hi Sue, it’s me. Are you sitting down? You won’t believe what happened. I was just notified that I qualified in the company sales incentive trip for this year! Not only that but I get all expenses paid for me and a friend. How would you like to join me as my guest? Call me back as soon as you can. Bye.”


Variations of this game are listed in Carol’s e-book,
Attracting Abundance with EFT.”

I have this book and I highly recommend it.


Another Abundance Game I have used many times over the course of my career:
I have written in a journal for years. Besides writing goals, things I was grateful for, things I had learned, I would also write imaginary letters to friends and family. These letters would be full of news of my successes and neat things I was doing as a result of my abundantly successful business.


I wrote these letters in two types of circumstances:


    1. Whenever someone said something disparaging about my business. For example: In the first year of my network marketing business a family member said, “Why don’t you stop selling those herbs and get a real job.” So, this woman has received many imaginary letters from me. Letters from all over the world. ; )


    2. The other circumstance that would inspire me to write a letter is when something really exciting happened in my business or just life in general. You see, It is much easier to write an excited, joyful letter about your future if you really feel the emotion. Take the emotion when you are feeling SUPER GOOD about something and write someone a letter.


Some things you could include in your letters:

  • Write letters from exotic places you would love to travel to. Write as though you are there, describe the sightseeing or the meals you are having. Always inserting a “wish you were here.” into the letter.
  • If your company has a sales incentive trip, write letters from the trip as though you already qualified.
  • Describe going on stage at convention and receiving awards for achieving higher levels in the company.
  • Reflect on how things have changed and how grateful you are for the life you are living.
  • If you picture a new house in your future, describe that.


Whatever it is that expresses success and abundance in your business and life, write about that and be as descriptive as possible telling the story of the things you will be able to do because of the success of your business. I have letters with all kinds of variations on future success that I was visualizing. Many of them have already come true for me.


Leave a comment and let me know what you think of these techniques or if you have any abundance tricks of your own you want to share.


Thanks for stopping in.


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WOW! Another year gone by. Today, January 28th is my 13th anniversary with my network marketing company. I am reflecting on the past 13 years and remembering all the people who have come and gone.


As I briefly reflect on the ones who were once with me I feel saddened by their loss. They could have stuck with it and experienced the freedom that many of my downline enjoy. When people are fussing about how bad the economy is, I am joyful because I have this business which is actually THRIVING.


So, I BRIEFLY reflect on those no longer here and then turn my attention to those of you who remain in the quest for freedom. I want to express my gratitude for all of you who have stayed with me and are working toward your own goals. I am proud of you. It gives me such joy to see your success.


We all have our issues we have to work through. Fears we have to face head on and then step over or around. My biggest fear was being a leader. That is a HUGE fear in network marketing because if you are to be successful network marketer, you MUST be a leader.


Overcoming that fear was something I had to work on from the very beginning. I knew it would require personal growth and mindset training. To help me with that I started listening to audios and reading books that would help build my confidence. I have made a partial list for those of you who are interested.
http://abundanceofsecrets4success.com/blog/success-articles/melodies-reading-list


Even with all the years of audios and working on my success mindset, I still have had a few fears I was dealing with but last year I started working with a Master Mind Group, founded by Joe Schroeder and Diane Hochman, called the Million Mind March. I am blown away by the progress I have made since joining. The last of my fears have vanished and I am doing things I said I would NEVER have the nerve to do.


The funny thing, people are noticing the change in me. Many of those people are not even involved in network marketing. I have to giggle a bit when I catch people looking at me from a distance as though they are trying to figure it out. Several people have asked me “what is going on with you.”


What is different is that I have become 10 Feet Tall and Bullet Proof. I have found the confidence that was missing. A confidence that has touched every area of my life and is changing the way I do things and lifted blocks and obstacles I thought I’d always be dealing with. All I can say is WOW!!! I can’t wait to see what comes next.


Whatever your fears are in your business, you need to work on personal growth and building a success mindset. That is a KEY to overcoming your fear. Listen to audios, read books and keep on going.


For me, network marketing is the best way to earn a living. It was worth ALL the money spent and time and effort on training and personal growth to get to this point.


I wish you all kinds of Success and Personal Growth,


Melodie Kantner


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