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Disciplines of Doership
How To Be 10 Feet Tall and Bullet Proof
By Joe Schroeder
Disciplines of Doership is a book I recently read and I am now re-reading it. It is a book, like “Think and Grow Rich, that I think everyone should read. It really doesn’t matter what goals you are setting out to accomplish, this is a book that will really help you get there.
From page 10 of Disciplines of Doership:
“The fact is, the subconscious mind is more concerned with what you doubt and fear, than what you pretend to “say” that you want. Ever hear the expression, “He talks a good game!” Because that’s all it is. Just talk and not the actual opinion of himself or his truest opinion of himself. Self-image is simply the truest opinion of yourself and if you change your opinion of yourself and change what you agree you are allowed to have and change WHO you agree you are allowed be, the having and receiving will change.
Period! Sounds simple, but it’s not. Why? Because most people have sacrificed themselves by living under the opinions of other people. Other people tell you how much you are worth. Other people have taught you how to react when things go haywire; you get angry and upset probably. Of course you do because you were taught and domesticated to. People think based on how other people taught them to think. What if what you thought CHANGED?
Until you lose the need for affection and validation from those around you it will be hard for things to change. Simply because so far, if you care to confess, you have lived, worked and acted based on what you allowed other people to convince you of as “truth.” But it was THEIR truth, not yours! Fair question, was their truth for you right and are you living a blessed life or cursed?
How come one guy earns $10,000 per week and another earns that in four months? How come the first guy, who makes it per week, never even went to college? The difference is attitude and self-image. Rich or poor everyone is FORCED to prove in public what they secretly believe in private about themselves is most true.”
This book teaches you how to re-program your brain, your self image and self confidence. It is a MUST HAVE for everyone who is serious about their success.
Have you read this book?
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I love this post.
I have always said you are what you think!
People need to go into the room of light and the darkroom where negatives are developed.
Melodie Kantner Reply:
August 24th, 2010 at 3:50 pm
Thanks Maggie. I like that room of light.
Thanks for sharing this Melodie. I loved the comment from the book “Self-image is simply the truest opinion of yourself and if you change your opinion of yourself and change what you agree you are allowed to have and change WHO you agree you are allowed be, the having and receiving will change.” And then you go on to talk about most people think of their self image based upon what other people think. I love the quote “who cares what other people think, most of them don’t think anyway.”
Michael
Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:22 pm
Hi Michael,
Yea. I like that one too. ; )
Hey Maggie,
Thanks for this article! I will definitely be picking up this book and adding it to my must read list.
This statement “most people have sacrificed themselves by living under the opinions of other people” is such a powerful one! Many people are living their lives exactly like that without even realizing it.
In Success,
Howie Perks
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Hi Melodie, thanks for the post. It makes for good reading. There are a couple of things I’d like to flag.
The first is “Self-image is simply the truest opinion of yourself…” It has been my experience that most people’s self image is not necessarily true nor created by themselves. Self image is just that, it’s the image that you have of yourself. What many fail to realise is that they can create their own SELF images, away from the opinions of others. The canvas is blank and you’re holding the brush!
What gets a lot of people is that they start out great without realising that they will encounter oppostion from people who now start to feel inadequate by their own inaction and unless you have a good support network (family, friends, colleagues) this becomes a walk through a tar pit.
Secondly, and this may sound harsh, reading books is not the magic pixie dust that is going to get you to where you want to go. Reading + ACTION (doership!).
You are a wonderful leader Melodie and I love your posts. I am very grateful that I have come to know through TSA.
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:22 pm
Hi Howard,
I agree about the action part, but the books on mindset help change the thinking and help with taking action.
Man, I have always wanted to be Human Dynamite! Sounds like a BLAST!
Sounds like a really great book as well. I may have to check that sucker out!
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
August 25th, 2010 at 10:23 am
Hey Matthew! Yea. It’s a BLAST.
I have to check the book out. Can’t be to bad because the Author has a super last name. Thanks Melodie for this good post.
Hi Melodie – thanks for sharing i haven’t read this book yet but your review was compelling and I like the lessons shared – attitude and self image are entwined and related to so many outcomes in life – simplistically labeled mindset
cheers Kiaran
Hi Melodie,
I have Think and Grow Rich, But your suggestion on reading Disciplines of Doership sounds great. Going from willing something to embedding it into your subconscious would be a powerful tool for life. Thanks, Joe LoFreso
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I like this post. It is so true that the subconscious is laser-focused on what our fears and pains are, versus what we tell ourselves day in and day out that we are, and who we are.
It amazes me how much psychological effort is really involved when it comes to finally making that decision to say, “I am going to be a better person, I am going have the things I’ve always wanted.”
And so on.
In a lot of ways, I feel people are almost addicted to fear and failure. Failure is so easy, it has absolutely no rejection and will accept everyone with a warm (though cruel) heart.
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:05 pm
Hi Gregory,
I agree. I think people are addicted to fear and failure. When you get past that and get to success, the feeling is so much better.
Our minds are so much more powerful than most of us have ever understood. What we truly believe will manifest in visible form in due time. That is the part that we don’t always realize. Do not judge by current appearances. Just hold the vision of what you want and believe is possible – and in due time, with actions taken toward the goal and sustaining that belief through continual renewal, the outside world will conform to you inner world’s beliefs.
Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:02 pm
Hi Erica,
That is so true
I have to be honest, I had never heard of this book. But based on what you are sharing with us in your blog post, I am going to change that.
I found out what you are describing the hard way. About 20 years ago I came to the US (from Europe) for my work and realized the impact others have on a persons life. I found out, because all of a sudden those people were not there any longer. I was here by myself. It made me think a lot about my believes and what I stand for. It also made me realize to the fullest that you should not simply believe what others are saying.
This experience made me a better and more successful person. It was not easy, but certainly worth it.
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:01 pm
Hi Karen,
It is a really good book. I have learned a lot from Joe through the million Mind March, mastermind group.
Thanks for sharing this post. Joe Schroeder is a very good marketer and an even better inspirational speaker. I haven’t read the book you referred to, but I think I will pick up a copy soon.
~ Tim
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 11:55 am
Hi Tim,
It’s an awesome book.
Hey Melodie. I have my book sitting right here next to me. I am in no hurry to finish it. There are so many good tid-bits in it; I just read a little bit in it every day. Thanks for this great review. Joe would love it.
Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 11:54 am
Hi Nicole,
I read through the first time faster but now I am going slower to get more. I like reading a bit and then thinking a bit on it.
Melodie,
Some great stuff here. Really appreciate this vision of how we can improve our performance by changing our mental approach.
I look at this everyday:
“your thoughts and feelings create your life.”
Thank your for your insight.
Peter
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 11:53 am
Hi Peter,
Yes. Our thoughts are key to changing things.
Hello Melodie
Thanks for the book recommendation. It has been on my list but now it is time grab a copy.
I like the idea of being “Bullet Proof”
Peter
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 11:52 am
Hi Peter. It’s a great book. I have been re-reading it and finding more pearls of wisdom as I go.
And most of those beliefs came from when we were little. So people shouldn’t beat themselves up for it. Just realize that they are not your beliefs and you have the power to change them.
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Sounds like a great book, will definitely put it on my list! We definitely ARE what we think and we believe and so many of us have so much negative programming from the past that can use revising. Glad this tool has been good for you!
Thanks so much,
Adam
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Melodie:
Thank you so much for sharing this book recommendation. I am always looking for these types of books and programs. I am currently studying Joe Vitale’s “The Missing Secret”. I’m on day two and getting some really great a-ha moments from it. Now I know what I’ll be studying after I finish Joe’s program.
Thanks again.
Live with passion and purpose,
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 4th, 2010 at 5:14 pm
Hi Vanessa,
I LOVE Joe Vitale’s books too. I have a bunch of his books and courses. I have learned a lot from him.
Melodie,
Thanks so much. I had just been hearing about Joe Schroeder and here you are with a great book by him. Based on your review, I will definitely be sure to read this one.
It used to be almost foreign to think that the opinions of others should have no bearing on how we feel about ourselves, but now I’m excited to learn more about how to create our self image just from our own thoughts. To be bullet-proof is the real goal.
Thanks for sharing this great book, Melodie!
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 4th, 2010 at 5:13 pm
Hi Dawn and Dave,
Yes. I really love what I have been learning from Joe. I am also in his mastermind group, Million Mind March. It has really changed my thinking. I have been in my network marketing business for nearly 14 years but this mastermind group has really helped me shake off the last of my fears about being a leader.
I feel so sorry for people who believe they are trapped in their life and their situation with no way out.
This comment is to let those of you with these beliefs know.
There is always a way out. There is always another path that will net different and better results. Yes the other road may be very hard, but the end result will be worth the sacrifice.
You’ve caught me at a weak moment
I am an info-junkie and have never heard of this book. It’s now on my list, as it looks for applicable for what I’m currently doing. It’s amazing how much information is out there to help anyone who has the DESIRE to make a change, do so successfully without reinventing the wheel. I can vouch for buying lots of crap as well, but even if you get one thing out of a $15 book it usually pays for itself.
Thanks for sharing!
Mike
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 11th, 2010 at 4:53 pm
Hi Mike,
I agree. Books like Disciplines of Doership have helped me a lot. It helps me build confidence so I can take action toward my goals.
Melodie,
I instinctively know this is spot on. Thanks for bringing this to our attention. I have been meaning to read this book for along time. It will be my next ebook.
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 14th, 2010 at 10:00 am
Hi Gary,
It’s a great book. I highly recommend it.
Hi Melodie,
Thanks for a great post. As I am always working on self development, this looks like a great book to read! I have added it to my current read list.
It is amazing how powerful the subconscious mind really is!
Thanks
Anna
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 14th, 2010 at 10:02 am
Hi Anna,
Yes, the subconscious mind is a powerful thing. We are all self made.
Hi Melodie,
If only there were a button we could press to recondition our subconscious minds!
Like you said, it’s not easy so a great thing for us to do is question every negative thought we have, is that really true? Is that my belief or someone elses? etc…
We just need to be honest when we answer.
Thanks for bringing my attention to that book
)
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
September 14th, 2010 at 10:04 am
Hi Denise,
Yea. Wouldn’t a button like that be helpful. How fast the changes would be.
Hi Melodie,
Thanks for this book recommendation. Amazing how the “outside chatter” of others impacts the “inside chatter” . . . that running commentary we have with ourselves. I like the closing paragraph . . .
“How come one guy earns $10,000 per week and another earns that in four months? How come the first guy, who makes it per week, never even went to college? The difference is attitude and self-image. Rich or poor everyone is FORCED to prove in public what they secretly believe in private about themselves is most true.”
Thanks for sharing and have a great day,
Susan
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Hi Melodie,
This book sounds great and I will definitely be adding it to my reading list as well. I used to believe that I could do anything in life and over the past few years I’ve somehow lost that belief. It changes everything and affects everything.
I think this book could really help me get back to where I was … thanks for sharing and recommending “Disciplines of Doership”.
Wendy
Hi Melodie,
Thanks so much for the recommendation. I have not seen this book before but I do know of Joe Shroeder.
I love the caption on the front of the book “Here lies the worlds ‘I can’t'”. Funnily enough my Mum always used to say ‘There’s no such word’
, so that probably helped me to refuse to believe there were things I could not do, lol!!
Will definitely search this book out.
Thanks Melodie!
Sue
Melodie Kantner Reply:
October 29th, 2010 at 3:49 pm
Hi Sue,
You can only get Joe’s book through that order line. It’s an amazing book. He usually gives a couple CDs along with.
Rich or poor everyone is FORCED to prove in public what they secretly believe in private about themselves is most true.”
That is probably the most profound thing I have read all day. What a great review on a great book thanks for sharing.
Steve
Melodie this statement, “you were taught and domesticated to” sums up the reason why it is hard to change. People are like the story of the elephant that was tied to a stake at a young age and now that small rope keep him tied to the stake.
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Hi Melodie,
I appreciate reading your well written article.
Self image is really what it all boils down to.
Even though I have kind of known this for years I am still in the process of undoing the conditioning I must have accepted from the past.
It seems to me that as I got older I question more what others told me.
Thank you so much for sharing this.
Love and Joy
from
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Melodie Kantner Reply:
June 8th, 2011 at 10:06 am
Hi Yorinda,
I know what you mean. I am thankful for getting older because I have become my own person and let go a lot of the past conditioning. I wish we could have the wisdom we have today back when we were young and wrinkle free.